integration/standard/test_query.py: fix test_no_connection_refused_on_timeout

seems like this test was fixed in upsteam to ignore `ErrorMessage` type
I don't know the exact reason, but since it take us quite some time to sync
with upstream, taking this change on it's own

it happens only with cassandra (tested with 4.1)

Ref: datastax@1b335d4

Author: fruch

tests/integration/standard/test_query.py

@@ -945,7 +945,7 @@ def test_no_connection_refused_on_timeout(self):
                 exception_type = type(result).__name__
                 if exception_type == "NoHostAvailable":
                     self.fail("PYTHON-91: Disconnected from Cassandra: %s" % result.message)
-                if exception_type in ["WriteTimeout", "WriteFailure", "ReadTimeout", "ReadFailure", "ErrorMessageSub"]:
+                if exception_type in ["WriteTimeout", "WriteFailure", "ReadTimeout", "ReadFailure", "ErrorMessageSub", "ErrorMessage"]:
                     if type(result).__name__ in ["WriteTimeout", "WriteFailure"]:
                         received_timeout = True
                     continue